Gratitude From Akemi’s Inner Child – Online Gratitude Journal #7

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Hi, I’m Akemi’s inner child. I always wondered what it’s like to blog, so I’m going to do this today while Akemi is doing what she calls “work.”

My Life Purpose

Akemi makes a big deal about Life Purpose. I think she makes it too complicated, like all adults do. Why, of course I know my life purpose. My life purpose is to go out and run around screaming. I love the fresh air in my face. I want to pick every flower I see. When I see a puddle, I jump in. Every puddle makes different splashes – did you know that? Then I go home and take a nap. Life is great.

I can’t wait to look outside the window every morning when I wake up. I guess this is the feeling Akemi calls gratitude. Such a big word for a simple feeling.

Link love

Hunter told me funny stories of Japan and said nice things about me, so I know he is a good person. I wish Akemi spends more time reading his blog.

Selene looks like a cute cartoon character, so I like her. A while ago, she invited Akemi to join her Get Clients Now! Program. I know Akemi got the book, was excited and made her own daily progress chart. She was doing it for a week or so, and then she screwed. She got busy dealing with her clients and forgot about keeping the score. I’m sorry, Selene, I know the Program is great, but Akemi is not as organized as you are. She says she is more intuitive, and she may have made some excuses about her dropout, but I know the truth.

My Law of Attraction Dream Money Project, Week 6, $3200

I don’t understand money very well, but Akemi said it’s growing fast and maybe we can go somewhere. So I’m looking at the map. Where is Italy? I think that’s where Akemi said lots of pretty pictures and yummy foods are. She wants to go to Spain, too, to Barcelona. She was looking at the photos of strange buildings called Gaudi. They sort of looked like the buildings I draw, so I think I like them.

Ok, this is it for today. I think Akemi is looking for me, so I’m going to hit this Publish button now before she comes. Have a great weekend, everyone!

How I Traded My Life For Future Security And How I’m Getting It Back

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Editor’s note: This article is contributed by Ken King of Destiny Building. Thank you, Ken!

Have you ever had a feeling in life that you were exactly where you were supposed to be, doing exactly what you were supposed to be doing?

If you’ve ever been fortunate enough to experience it, you know that when it happens you feel a deep a sense of contentment in knowing that you are on the right path. All is as it should be, and the path that led you to that point was exactly the one you should have taken.

One afternoon last week I hopped on my bicycle and went for a ride to one of my favorite vistas, a beautiful lake overlooking downtown Orlando. Much of my writing is inspired in nature; composed of things that either “come” to me when I open myself up to ideas, or often as the result of meditating on a subject and then writing whatever begins to flow naturally.

While riding over towards the lake it began to dawn on me that in life our experiences are actually much more about the journeys themselves than about arriving at any particular destination. Somewhere along the way, I realized that I was so focused on getting where I wanted to go, I was ignoring wherever it was I happened to be. You see, one of the blessings I get to experience is that I live in an area with lots of older, unique homes, mature trees, brick streets, and in a community where people walk, ride, and jog along the main thoroughfare. Tables at outdoor cafes are common, and so when heading from point A to B there’s a lot to experience if you don’t get so focused on your destination that you block it all out.

Catching myself doing exactly that, I was reminded of the career paths that made up most of my existence. Too often I traded in the richness of the experience for benefits I believed would accrue when I arrived at my ultimate destination.

My focus on the future was killing my present.

My arrival at the lake provided a moment for reflection. As I looked back upon my career path, I realized that the shift away from enjoying the experience began in college, where after two years I changed my major from music to finance because I had no stomach for playing the role of a starving artist. Once out of college, I ignored jobs with challenge and high paying potential, looking instead for those that provided security and stability.

I found both in a career with the federal government. I had my own 6′x6′ cubicle, an excellent health plan, and three mid level supervisors sitting within 30 feet of me. I also found excruciating boredom and developed a distaste for mindless routine. I worked in an office full of people who kept retirement calendars pinned to their cubicle walls, counting down the years, months, and days until they would arrive at their ultimate destination (retirement). It was then that I began to realize that the chase for security left much to be desired.

My focus was chained to the future, and it was killing my present day by day. Yet so strong was my future orientation that I persevered in spite of my distaste for the environment. Eventually I grew to the point where I simply couldn’t stand it anymore.

My successes and failures as entrepreneur.

Six years later, after one more degree and the birth of my child, I made a radical shift, this time going into business for myself. I started a cleaning business that I ran for seven years and was financially successful with. Initially the challenge of building something from the ground up motivated me. Everything was my creation, from the logos to the advertising, hiring, firing, and networking with other local companies to bid on and complete large contract work.

I loved the creative portion, yet my outlook was still future based. And once the business became established I no longer enjoyed the day to day activities very much because to me the work lacked intrinsic value. I eventually sold the accounts and decided to take on an entirely new challenge.

My next business venture turned out to be my biggest failure, and yet also potentially my greatest blessing. I purchased an established retail operation and had ambitious plans of growing it even bigger. It too was void of intrinsic value, but the money looked good and I decided to go for it. It was a business that catered to homeowners and was almost entirely dependent upon the real estate market. I bought it at what turned out to be the worst possible time. Instead of making it big I ended up losing a lot of money and ultimately had to sell it at a loss. In short, I failed.

Yet I now had another chance, a choice to either do something that motivated me and was in line with my values, or to seek security in a steady income and put my focus on securing a successful retirement as my ultimate destination.

Embracing my journey to my life purpose.

Fast forward to that scene at the lake. There I sit, perusing my ambitions as a writer, life coach, and aspiring public speaker. I’d always had the urge to write, and I’ve been passionate about personal growth for many years. I’m a strong believer in being a lifelong learner, having taken courses in project management, public speaking, Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP), life coaching and improvisational comedy simply because I loved learning and had a genuine interest in these things. I’d never taken any courses in writing, yet in the back of my mind I often imagined myself doing it someday.

Does my new career choice satisfy my desire for intrinsic value? Absolutely. To me there’s a deep sense of gratification in helping people overcome challenges and live out their life’s ambitions. To see that I’ve made a difference in someone’s life provides me with a sense of satisfaction unequaled by anything I’ve done before. So as I sat there overlooking downtown Orlando, pen and notepad in hand, suddenly it dawned on me.

I was right where I was supposed to be, doing right what I was supposed to be doing. All of the experiences of my life had come together to bring me to this point. They were all part of the journey. And quite often the experiences I labeled as “bad” proved to be the catalyst for change that ended up taking me where I really wanted to go.

I also learned that destinations in life are like checkpoints -once you reach them it’s time to move on to something else. It’s in the actual journey towards our destinations that we learn, grow, laugh, cry, rise, fall, and experience all the beauty and emotions of life itself. Lesson learned, I packed up my pen and pad and hopped back onto my bicycle. Riding home, I missed not a thing along the way.

Contributing writer’s greeting:
Thank you, Akemi, for allowing me to contribute to Yes to Me.
My blog, Destiny Building, is dedicated to helping people discover and live their true potential. Please check my blog if you enjoyed the above article. Thank you.
– Kenneth King

I Have A Dream. . .

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Said Martin Luther King, Jr. in his speech that changed the consciousness of many Americans.

That was August 28, 1963, and his dream was “that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.” This is an outstanding example of the power of words.

Do you have a dream? Join the “I Have A Dream” Project.

There is an old word in Japanese that means Spirit of Words (kotodama). People believed that spoken words have power to manifest by this Spirit. Make an inspiring speech and it has the power to bring it to reality, beyond the logical mechanics of persuasion and instruction.

So, in honor of the mysterious Spirit and late MLK, I am suggesting a meme called “I Have A Dream. . .” Please let me know when you post your article for this project, and I will add your name and link to this post.

Honestly, I feel like such a big head to start a project after the MLK speech. I am not into political movement – my main intentions are about my personal life, just like you. However, I really think this practice of dreaming big is good for us. Dreaming big is about thinking in terms of possibilities, not probabilities. For this reason, I recommend this practice especially to aspiring entrepreneurs. Of course, everyone is welcome. Please read about the prize and rules for entry at the end of this article.

My Dream
I have a dream that one day, every one of us will wake up in the morning feeling strong and inspired, knowing he or she is living toward their special life purpose. I sense that this is already starting to happen, but we need to bring it up to our clear consciousness.

When this dream actualizes, we will no longer need to distract ourselves from our inner emptiness with things like substances, gambling, and unnecessary luxuries. We will celebrate the joy of life with our friends, and we may serve drinks on such occasions, but we will not drink to distract us from unhappy daily life. Likewise, we will enjoy nice things for their niceness, but we will not need them to disguise the feeling of loss. We will know firsthand the joy and contentment of life with purpose.

Each of us are part of the Whole, yet have a special purpose. When we realize this, we will stop comparing ourselves with others. We will no longer need to compete against our own friends. We will know what it is to love ourselves and others.

When we realize our life purpose, and feel the sense of direction to live toward the purpose, we will have the courage to start doing the things that we previously felt overwhelmed to try, such as starting our own businesses. We will see life as an adventurous journey.

I have a dream. It is a huge dream, and yet it starts with each one of us. Image what the world will be like when this dream come true.

For your thoughts
Check out the movie trailer of The Shift here. (HT to Todd at We The Change) This is another big dream – that needs to happen.

Prize
Just to make it more fun, I am offering a movie DVD to one winner. I wish I could offer The Shift, but this movie is not out yet, so I picked What the Bleep Do We Know!?.

Please post your article and let me know about it by the end of May. Also, I ask my readers to please leave your comments what you think about the posts and which one you like best. With reference to the comments, I will pick 6 finalists, and then randomly pick one winner.

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