Spirituality Is About Anything And Everything In Life

Do you consider spirituality as a special day (maybe Sunday) treat?    Do you think certain activities such as meditation or religious worship is spiritual while your other activities are not?

Many people compartmentize spirituality.  And this is so counterproductive to your spiritual development.  Because (hold your breath) ANYTHING and EVERYTHING in life is spiritual.  You are a spiritual being living in a physical body, so you cannot not be spiritual.  Thinking you can is delusional and detrimental.  (Photo by Paulaloe)

Eating is spiritual

For instance, eating is spiritual.  All your meals, snacks, and drinks.  It’s not a “low” activity while “spiritual work” is holier.  And I don’t mean certain diet, such as vegetarianism, is spiritual while others are not.

I stopped eating meat after my soul shift, but it’s because my new soul (therefore my body) simply rejects it.  It’s not about some spiritual or religious beliefs.  I actually hated the self-righteousness of some vegetarians.

Eating is about feeding the body with other lives, whether they were plants or animals.  It is a way to connect to other life forms, along with the people who have contributed to the harvesting, processing, distributing, and preparing of the foods.  Each one of us are connected and supported by the whole, and eating is a solid way to realize it.

Eating is also about caring for our physical bodies.  While we are incarnated, the condition of the physical body affects our soul.  So you do want to eat healthy.  And this is true 24/7.  You cannot binge eat and then somehow “purge” or forget about it.

You may insist vegetarianism enhance your psychic power.  Sure.  This is why traditional psychic mediums and religious figures were vegetarian.  If you want to follow their path, I also recommend abstinence.  Attachment to anything and anyone can affect clear channeling.  Ideally, stay virgin all your life.

Fortunately, we can also develop our intuition and psychic power while enjoying meat.  Of both kinds.  So again, all eating is spiritual.

Sex is spiritual

And I don’t mean certain style of sex or certain sexual relationship is spiritual while others are not.  You can be as kinky as you and your partner want.  I don’t even think monogamy is the spiritually-correct form of intimate relationship.  As long as you can be honest and open, you can experience love and sex in many ways.

Sex is a way we exchange energy with another person.  Every single act – whether you were serious or just playing or whatever, causes this interaction.  Saying something like, “Oh, that was just my animal instinct that surged on Saturday night.  I have nothing to do with her and the real spiritual me is looking for my soulmate.” is a lie.

(I have nothing against men.  I like men.  But I think men are more likely to say BS like above due to their hormone effects.  There are other BS related to sexuality, and I’m sure women use them, too.)

And of course, sex is also about creation and procreation.  What can be more spiritual than love and new life?

Work is spiritual

Again I don’t mean certain jobs such as religious jobs, teaching jobs, or non-profit jobs are spiritual and others are not.  Work is about service, whether it is about sweeping the floor, repairing a computer, or figuring out how to sell a handmade jewelry.  It is about exchanging energy, and many times, about helping others exchange energies.

Money is a form of energy, too.  Thinking money is dirty and low is a socially supported yet nonetheless erroneous idea and is an effective way to refuse God’s blessings.  In our current system, exchanging value and money works, and empowered lightworkers can make good money.  (We are moving on to the New World where we’ll be just freely giving away value, but that is another topic I will be writing at another occasion.)

Money is fine, but thinking your work has no meaning other than earning a paycheck is a huge neglect of your own value, which is spiritual.

I can go on and on saying how everything in life is spiritual – every friendship and other relationships you have, every physical activity you do, the way you sleep, get up, drive, etc etc. — but I hope you get the idea.  There is not a minute you are not spiritual.

Lies to our spiritual nature

Anything and everything in life is spiritual.  Accepting this fact can help you streamline all aspects of your life, reconciling what is out of alignment, and so will promote your spiritual growth.  Rejecting this fact and lying to yourself and others distance you from truth.

And perhaps I’m repeating myself, but this alignment with your true spiritual nature is NOT about being a “good” person.  The idea of a “good” person, or what is “good”, is severely manipulated by darkworker authorities.  Most of us are more or less brainwashed with the various ideas of “good” that have been taught to us in schools, families, and in society in general.

We need to review all ideas of “good”.  At this time, the only thing that I think is no good is to mis-align with the basic energy flows of Love, Light, Truth, Abundance and Power.  Lying is mis-aligning yourself from Truth, so I don’t recommend it.

Does this idea of everything is spiritual work scare you?  If so, why?  Please let me know in the comment.

4 Questions For My Readers

I usually play the role of an educator (haha) here at Yes to Me, but today, I want to switch roles.  I have some serious questions about life, this world, and myself and I’m hoping my wise readers can help me.  (Photo by Sailing)

1. Why are people afraid of death?

There seems to be a consensus that the longer a person lives, the better.  I hear people say something like, “If I’m really lucky, I’d live to 100 . . .”  And when someone dies young, whether that is 80 years old or 60 years old or 40 years old or as a minor, that is considered bad and shameful.  Or in the case of children’s death, they blame God or the doctors or something.

Like (this is just one example of many, nothing personal here), Tim Brownson commented in Zen Habits regarding the Law of Attraction, “. . .my introduction to manifesting was The 28 Laws of Attraction by Thomas Leonard that originally came out (I think) about 6 or 7 years ago. Thomas Leonard then died at the age of 48, so his manifesting ability as an expert seems questionable at best ”

But then, most older people I see don’t seem to be particularly happy. Why?  If living long life is the ultimate goal of life (or at least one of them) and everyone wants it, they are the winners, right?

I don’t get it.  I don’t mind leaving here on Earth this afternoon (except that I have several weeks worth of waiting list for my service – hope someone would refund them after I’m gone).  Not that I want to die.  Well, honestly, I’m getting a bit tired of all the mess in the world, but I still enjoy my life and I don’t mind continuing to live and do some service work in the meantime.  But I don’t think it’s a bad thing to die.  Just spare me with excessive pain and drama.  (So don’t send me paper bomb, okay?)

But maybe I’m missing something?  Can someone give me a few reasons why living long is the ultimate goal?

2. Why do people want more money than they can spend?

I do understand that we live in a monetary system and money comes handy to get the products and services I want.  That is why I have my business and charge a heck of money ^_^  (I raised my rate three times in less than a year.)  But I don’t understand wanting more money than I need.

Let’s just say I make a comfortable living with 100K a year.  And let’s also say I achieve this goal.  (Not quite there yet, and I probably don’t need this much, but hey, it’s fun to think.  And I’m not good with numbers so I don’t want to work out the real numbers.)  There are three choices I can make at this point:

1. Keep working hard and make even more money
2. Work less, enjoy life more
3. Keep working hard but in a different way, including some work that may not produce income

I’d choose either 2 or 3.  But many people seem to choose 1.  Why?

For rainy days?  Again, I do understand the benefit of having some buffers.  Life is full of ups and downs.  But really, isn’t it a bit obsessive to think the more the better?  Or are there other reasons I have not noticed?

3. Why are some people so passionately against same sex marriage and other stuffs they are not involved?

I do understand that if you are homosexual and want to get married, you are passionate about legalizing same sex marriage.  It’s your issue. I don’t necessarily think legal marriage is particularly a wonderful institution, but if you want it, you want it, and that is fine.

But if you are heterosexual, what do you care about same sex marriage?  It has nothing to do with you.  I’m straight, and I simply don’t have much to say about homosexualism.  For me, they are just people like me or anyone else.

However, I do have something to say about love and marriage in general regardless of the participants’ gender.

And that is: love is good.  If you are gay and really hate being gay, that may be an issue, like a sugar addict hating sugar cravings.  But as long as you are happy with yourself, I don’t think any form of love is “wrong”.  (Oooops, I forgot the possibilities of extremes like incest.  There are people who want to argue using the fake logic of extremes.)

Some argue same sex marriage weakens marriage.  BS.  Marriage has been weakened by people getting married for wrong reasons like for money, security, or validation, and also weakened by married people who are cheating.  Two  adults getting married for mutual love and care cannot damage the institution of marriage whatever their gender may be.

I don’t understand the whole homophobia stuff, either.  Why is it bad for a man to sxxx another man’s penis while it is fine for a woman to do the same?  And why do you care about what other people do in their privacy?  It’s not like they are dumping lead paint off the drain, contaminating our Earth.

4. What is my image or brand?

The dignified, outspoken, and secretly sensitive James Chartland (the last one is tricky.  Apparently sensitive is not the image he likes to cast on himself, so he works hard to impress his readers with his manliness.  But I bet he is sensitive)  wrote an interesting post about branding.  In that article, he points out how Frank Kern utilizes the laid-back, every man image as his brand to sell his expensive info product.

I’m intrigued.  While I think I know myself pretty well, I also know it is extremely hard to know oneself.  So will you please help me?  Describe Akemi as you know her with three (or more) words, like I did for James and write them in the comment.  You can be honest ^_^

Thank you and a big smile!

How Not To Find Your Soulmate

I know I’m crashing many people’s dreams.  Please don’t stone me.  Although it may be disappointing, knowing the truth of soulmates can free you up in your search for romantic relationship.  (And yes, I know Valentine’s Day is coming up . . .) (Photo by smudie)

You don’t want to seek your soulmate

You know the whole hype the mass media has made about soulmates.  There is one soul that is meant for you, and you are supposed to marry him or her.  You and him or her have promised to do so at the deep soul level many lifetimes ago.  They are also called twin flames.

As you know, I read people’s soul records (Akashic Records) professionally. So, yes, I know about the soulmate contracts.  I come across them occasionally.  When I do, my heart starts sinking with compassion.  And I expect an emotionally-charged phone session.  Because the soulmate contracts, at this time of our spiritual evolution, are outdated and those who are still seeking their soulmates are bound to be disappointed.

It started off on a positive note.  The two souls had such a great relationship that they decided to do it all over again when they’d come back in another lifetime.  And they did.  And the relationship was again good.    And then they came back to this physical world again and did it all over again.  And . . .

At some point, it got old.  When they first meet in the physical world, there is already a sense that they know each other somehow.  In the past, this promoted to form a relationship quickly and kept it secure.  There were plenty of other challenges in life and having a prescribed relationship with someone they already knew on the soul level worked as a safety net.

However, we don’t need this kind of restriction any longer and a lot of souls have noticed it.  They intuitively know they can form intimate relationship with someone new for totally new experiences.  So they have voluntarily cleared the soulmate contract on their own to free themselves.

. . . so long, honey, it’s been good but I’m ready for a new adventure now . . .

What happens when one soul sticks to their soulmate contract

The problem is there are still souls who are literally keeping their side of the soulmate contracts.  They seek and indeed find their soulmates.  They recognize their soulmates as such and woo.  Their soulmates, however, are not interested.  They may feel the familiarity and like their former soulmates, but they are not interested in having yet another intimate relationship with them.

So they keep a distance, messaging “Let’s just be friends.”  The one that’s still keeping the soulmate contract, however, wouldn’t listen and chase their mate.  Sad, unproductive courtship happens.

For the one that’s keeping soulmate contract, this is dissatisfying and frustrating.  For the one that has cleared the soulmate contract, this is very disturbing and confusing.  This person does not dislike their former soulmate – the former soulmate is like an old family member.  Just not romantic.

Sometimes they are already married.  One spouse has noticed the relationship is outdated – it’s not like they don’t love their partners any longer, but they crave freedom and new opportunities.  If they can dissolve the issue somehow, by separation / divorce or by somehow opening up the marriage (whether this involves sex with other people or not), that’s good.  If not, the soul that has cleared the soulmate contract may grow increasingly frustrated to the point that they start resenting their partners.

Soulmates vs soul friends

Soulmates are not the only souls we know from our past lives.  There are other familiar souls that I like to call “soul friends”.  Dr Michael Newton calls them “soul cluster groups” in Journey of Souls.  These souls know each other, may have some agreements, but not a binding contracts like soulmate contracts.  They incarnate at the same time repeatedly to share lifetimes.

You may know your soul friends.  The souls that walk into your life seemingly accidentally but ever so meaningfully.  You just feel so relaxed talking with them, even after a long time of no contact.

For example, in Dr Brian Weiss’ Many Lives, Many Masters, his patient Catherine’s soul friends include the doctor who referred her to Dr Weiss and Dr Weiss himself.

You may or may not want to marry your soul friend.  Sometimes, friends are best kept as friends.

The new meaning of romantic relationship

I think some of us are seeking fundamentally different things in romantic relationships these days.  In the past, relationship was a preparation or trial of becoming and raising a family.  It was for survival.  It was also about learning – learning from each other and through relationship.

Now, for more and more souls, romantic relationship is simply about experiencing love in this physical world.    It’s not about survival – on the contrary, it’s about free expression of love.  Romantic relationship is just that – it really doesn’t matter if it leads to marriage and family, and it doesn’t even have to be about learning.  Just experience what love is like in this physical form.  Period.

I guess most of us are still caught up in the old survival-oriented relationship model that has been the norm in society for thousands of years.  It’s scary to jump to the new type of relationship model based on unconditional love and freedom.  So you may be  tempted to argue that free love is possible and has always existed in the old survival-oriented relationships.  But if so, why do people become so possessive of their partners?

I’m not saying one is better than the other.  I’m saying many souls are waking up and opening to new possibilities.

Like other things I discuss on this blog, don’t just take my word.  If you want to form an exclusive relationship, my blessings go to you.  I know the sense of security feels good, and if your partner is happy about it, too, that is wonderful.  Just don’t bind him or her with mandatory contracts like soulmate contracts

Do you still want to find your soulmate?  Which part of the media story on soulmates ticks you?

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